Episode 024: How do we empathise with those who disagree with us?

We talk about how we can give others the benefit of the doubt while we attempt to understand their perspectives; so we are more reflective rather than reactive. 

It's not easy, especially if you sense there is a deliberateness behind your interlocutor's invalidation. BUt hold the line. Do your best to empathise; it is worth it. Remember empathy does not mean you agree; it is simply a way to help you understand your interlocutor. 

This can be quite disarming and it takes the wind out of the sails of a conflict; which makes for a more productive sort of interaction. 

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