EP104 | Violent Video Games and Movies: Are They Secretly Harming Your Child?

In this episode of we explore the contentious topic of violent video games and movies and their impact on children. We look at the potential risks and offers practical advice for parents.

Key Points:

1. Statistics on Violent Media Exposure:

   • 90% of movies, 68% of video games, and 60% of TV shows contain some form of violence.
   • Concerns about increased aggression, desensitization to violence, and emotional distress in children.

2. Research Insights:

   • Mixed findings on the impact of violent media.
   • Younger children and those with pre-existing emotional or behavioral problems may be more vulnerable.

3. Practical Solutions for Parents:

   • Monitor Content: Be aware of what your child is watching or playing. Use content ratings as a guide.
   • Set Limits: Manage screen time and restrict access to violent content. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no more than one to two hours of screen time per day for children over the age of two.
   • Encourage Alternative Activities: Promote non-violent games and activities that foster creativity, problem-solving, and social interaction.

4. Prosocial Video Games:

   • Games that reward helping and cooperation can increase empathy and decrease aggressive thoughts.

5. Context Matters:

   • Different types of violent content can have varying impacts. Help children understand and process what they see.

6. Catharsis Theory:

   • The idea that violent media can serve as a safe outlet for aggression is not widely supported by research.

Resources Mentioned:

• Huddle Wisdom Courses:
  • “Supporting and Guiding Anxious Kids” – Empathic parenting strategies for emotional and behavioral challenges.
  • “Connecting with Anxious, Sensitive, and Neurodiverse Kids” – Enhancing communication skills, fostering empathy, and managing emotions.

Conclusion:

• Err on the side of caution with violent media, especially for younger children and those with behavioral issues.
• Monitor content, set limits, and provide alternatives.
• Every child is different; tailor your approach to your family’s needs.

Next Episode:

• The impact of social media on teenage self-esteem.

Outro:

• Thank you for tuning in. Stay informed and engaged with your children’s media consumption.