School avoidance and anxiety are intricate challenges that necessitate a collective approach, uniting the child, family, school, and mental health professionals. In my experience, triumph is rarely accomplished without this joint effort.
The Emotional Toll of School Avoidance
School avoidance is an emotionally laden issue that can inflict significant distress on all parties involved. Parents often vacillate between feelings of confusion and frustration. One day everything appears fine, the next itâs in chaos. We might find ourselves exclaiming, âWeâve been through this!â, âYou went yesterdayâ, âWhatâs the problem now?â (expressing frustration rather than seeking the problem), âI need to get to workâ, âStop playing around. You are being selfishâ, âThis is unacceptableâ, âIf you donât get in the car, Iâm going to have to drag you kicking and screamingâ. The guilt that ensues from such encounters is immense - we feel like weâre failing because we canât get our kids to school
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Ah, the joys of parenthood!
There you are, blissfully dreaming, when suddenly, youâre jolted awake by a little voice asking about the fate of the planet.
Lynsey G posed a great question: What do you say to kiddos with anxiety over concerns about the environment or similar global-scale problems, at 2 in the morning?
Hereâs one approach you could test to handle those midnight queries with empathy, brevity, and a gentle nudge back to bed.
First, letâs validate those feelings. Even in your half-asleep state, itâs important to let your child know that itâs okay to be worried. âI can see youâre really concerned about the environment. Itâs okay to feel that way. It shows you care a lot.â
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At 2 AM, simplicity is key. You want to soothe and comfort without diving into a full-blown discussion. âThere are many people working hard to take care of the Earth. Scientists, activists, and even kids like you are making a difference every day.â
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